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All is not lost: going from online to in-person in 10 easy steps

You know what I love? I love when a guy:

1) Responds to my ad with an email that's clear, coherent, engaging and 2) includes a g-rated picture. When I email him back, he 3) engages in an interesting email exchange long enough to 4) make plans to actually meet. Once we've made plans, he 5) doesn't cancel them at the last minute and 6) actually shows up. While we have coffee (because he 7) didn't insist that we have to fuck the first time we meet), 8) our conversation flows nicely, we both get a chance to talk, laugh and get to know each other. 9) At the end of the evening, we both agree we'd like to see each other again and 10) he emails me after the date to confirm that he'd like to see me again.

Yes, when this happens, it makes cluechicks happy.

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