More on that pregnancy kink on casual encounters
My basic approach to kinks of all sorts is a pretty classic, "What you want is okay, as long as everyone involved in the actualization of your fantasy does so with informed consent," sort of idea. So the guy with the impregnation fantasy who I mentioned yesterday doesn't strike me as strange for having that fantasy so much as for the oddness of trying to enact it with strangers, particularly those who might answer a Casual Encounters ad. By definition, an activity that results in a baby is not casual.
The leap of faith involved in playing out that fantasy with a stranger is what boggles me: you're trusting a stranger to have current test results, not to have exposed him/herself to an STD since the test was taken, not to change his/her mind about custody or financial arrangements (or lack thereof) down the road. To me, living out a hot fantasy just isn't worth it.
Anyway, if I were looking to pick up a father for my fantasy child, he'd have to show me some other test results beyond the STD test. After all, if I'm not picking the father out of love, I at least ought to get the best genetic material possible.
