One of my favorite things about sleeping around
There are a lot of things to like about casual sex, as anyone who's had it knows. And one of those things, for me, is the proliferation of first kisses I get in this context. I suppose that I could just go around kissing the people I find attractive in day to day life, but I'm pretty sure that would be frowned upon at the office. "Hey, you're cute! *smooch* Oh... you're thinking about investing in the company...? Well... um... we're very friendly!"
In the context of casual hookups, it's not weird to kiss very early on in my acquaintance with someone, and there is simply nothing like a first kiss to give me a thrill. One of the things that often happens, and that I like very much, is that the guy will be very confident and chatty throughout our meeting, but as we arrive at the moment to kiss or not to kiss, he freezes up, unsure of what to do. For whatever reason, I find that moment's hesitation surprisingly endearing. On the other hand, I also like the guy who doesn't hesitate, who knows he wants to kiss me, and goes for it.
The truth is, if we've gotten to the point where I'm looking forward to kissing you, you're pretty well golden.
Kissing is a whole nother language, and it's a delight to learn another's tongue. Do you start soft and tentative, or do you dive in and get wet all at once? Do you close your eyes and savor the sensations, or do you like to keep your eyes open and watch the blurry outlines of your lover's face close to yours? Do you press up against your lover's body for a full-contact experience, or do you like to take it slow, just running your hand over her neck, down her side, resting at the curve of her hip?
Kissing is like eating out -- I like variety and different flavors, and I love the opportunity, in casual encounters, to try many different cuisines along the way.
