ClueChick's (minor) identity crisis
You may have noticed some changes here this last week, most particularly with regards to my posting frequency. I had been posting twice a day Sunday - Thursday, and once each Friday and Saturday, but I've figured out that that's not really a sustainable pace, especially not right now when I'm having a lot of balls in the air (not that kind of balls, y'all) in my "real" life. That, combined with a crisis of inspiration, has slowed me down to one a day, except yesterday, which I missed. Mea culpa. Someone can punish me later.
I'm aiming for once a day, though, and will continue to aim for that, especially if I can figure out just where I'm taking this blog, which is where the crisis of inspiration comes in. I have a couple of posts brewing in response to people's questions and comments, but if you have things you're particularly interested in hearing me talk about, do feel free to comment or send me email.
One of the things I'll be talking about real soon now is inspired by today's WaiterRant -- the issue of being too polished is one I haven't talked about, since mostly I run into guys who aren't polished enough, but my favorite waiter makes an excellent point. So, for real content, today, go read that!
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Just a suggestion for a post in lue of your "crisis."
I've been out of a real, committed relationship for over a year now and, subsequently, have been hooking up with guys from CL for almost as long. Several were one-timers (especially there at the beginning), however, I've had 2 or 3 guys that were somewhat "long term." Anyway, that's the background—in December I hooked up with a guy with whom I had the most amazing sex, ever. Not only do we share bedroom interests, we really hit it off outside of the bedroom, too. I've seen him at least every other week since we met which is, by far, more than any other CL guy. Also, when we meet up, its for a legit date (dinner, dancing, drinks, ect) pre-sex.
I find myself slipping quickly from the "casual sex" realm into the "I really like this guy" realm. I've let all of my other casual encounters go and now only see him. The problem is that I don't know that I'm ready to get back into the committed thing and yet I don't want to let this guy go. I think he'd like for this to be a real relationship but its kind of terrifying to think about bringing this up in conversation—what if I'm wrong about how he feels?
Anyway, that's the "crisis" I find myself in. Maybe it'll help you with your's.
Posted by: Kayla | March 6, 2006 12:20 PM