ClueChick: real clues from a real chick

You say, but I bet there's a fair number of women out there who enjoy getting a notch in their belts. There's something powerful feeling about being someone's first.

I'm much too old for that game, now, but I'll admit to having a bit of a penchant for virgins in my youth.

Plus there's the pity fuck factor.

Sapio: Wow, really? It was such an immediate turnoff for me that it didn't even occur to me that it might appeal to someone else.

I mean, I want someone who knows what he's doing!

As for the pity fuck... I've avoided those up until now, and I'd like to maintain my track record on that front. Pity is not sexy.

I would be wary on a different level. Here is a guy who clearly wants sex--is probably not conflicted because of restrictions based on religion or something--and yet in 10 years of likely potential sexual activity, has come up dry.

I would wonder why he had not been able to do this before and why he needed to be on CL CE to do it.

As a guy, I know it is harder for men to find a sex partner than it can be for a woman. That being said, I begin to wonder why, at 25, he had not found someone through his normal everyday interactions to have done this with by now.

I guess I would be concerned that there was something else going on with this guy...major visual issues (which would be sad since he would be nearly hamstrung in terms of correcting them)...high creepiness factor...or something else.

I agree with "B". However, a more likely scenario is that "virgin guy" is really just "desperate guy" trying to rein in a pity fuck.

Just a more pathetic version of "It's my birthday guy".

"T" has a point: Never underestimate a (certain breed of) desperate man's willingness to lie through his teeth to get a chance to poke somebody.

You know, there is that. He could just be a pathetic, desperate non-virgin guy who is claiming vriginity to get a pity fuck. For some reason I never even thought of that.

So...ahem...er...uh...36 year old guy here. I am a virgin. Needs to get it on before the equipment falls off from disuse. Needs a nice lady to break him in.

Yeah...that will work. I need to run and post that on CE right now. My mailbox is gonna be FLOODED with hot babes looking to hook me up! Woo-hoo!