Another of those all-too-rare great casual sex ads by men: Boston
People often ask me to post examples of good CE ads by men. Today, I stumbled upon this one (that link will only work for about a week, and if I'm on top of things, I'll remember to unlink it next week sometime.):
So are you actually looking for a naughty friend? - m4w - 30 Date: 2006-07-04, 11:13AM EDTI mean, lets be honest. I get the feeling more people on craigslist aren't really looking for that ultimate, casual, no holds barred, naughty relationship. The kind where neither of us feels the least bit uncomfortable sharing our deepest, darkest, dirtiest fantasies with.
You may ask why someone wouldn't want to just share them with their girlfriends, boyfriends, wives, husbands, friends-with-benefits partner (or any other run-of-the-mill paring you can come up with)?
The truth is that there is a level of relationship there that you just might not want to ruin with certain thoughts and fantasies. Telling your husband tat you want more oral sex, how to use his tongue, to dress up like a fireman, or other conventional things is hard enough to do.
To say its your life long fantasy to be treated like a whore, done by three men at once, or dress up like a little girl and get fondled by your daddy... Well, those are the sort of thing that might make them view you a little differently. Forever change things.
I am searching for a woman who won't get offended by hearing my dirty fantasies. I won't get offended hearing yours. How great to be able to talk about them with someone.
I know you won't like all of mine. I know that I won't like all of yours. Chances are we will like a lot more than we don't. I won't judge you, think better or worse of you (well, ok, probably better) no matter what turns you on.
Hell, even it it aint my cup 'o tea I will probably do it for you.
I am 30. I am attractive - no not a model or movie star but good looking. I am sane. I am safe. I am respectful. I can listen.
I am creative and dirty.
Talk to me. Email me. Lets start to know each other.
Happy 4th of July (if I don't write back right away, well, it is the holiday... dont' worry, you will hear from me).
Comments
I have had some success with this one, if you don't mind me posting:
http://washingtondc.craigslist.org/mld/cas/179902165.html
Posted by: G | July 9, 2006 12:02 AM
I have used this basic message and have got three responses ,in two days ,looks good.Thanks Cluechick .I will let you know what happens.
Posted by: yaknart33 | July 9, 2006 1:44 AM
I'll be curious to hear how it goes for you. Did you personalize your ad at all, or just copy this one whole cloth?
Posted by: Cluechick | July 9, 2006 11:35 AM
3 responses is good. Maybe I need to move to Boston!
Posted by: G | July 9, 2006 11:41 AM
No I personalized it made a few changes have got 5 responses it does work.I have a good sense of humour and am somewhat intelligent.It does make you think about the way you say things.For example I am a nice guy,not to much of a perv,not an axe murderer,never been on Cops,Americas Most Wanted.I have used this basic intro got some response but not from the type of ladies I prefer.It does help that I am good looking,have been on more than a few commercials,t v ,cable for a large company,occaisonally get recognized.Not in my home town but in vegas several times.So I will keep you updated and thanks CC for opening my eyes.C-YA!
Moogie33
Posted by: Anonymous | July 11, 2006 2:52 AM