Listen, bub!
You know what I think of men who ignore what I tell them? Not much.
I'm consistently amazed at how often this comes up. I often end up conversing with fellows who seem nice enough, but for whatever reason, I'm not interested in hooking up with them. Most often, this is because they're married and cheating, or looking to cheat. I like getting to know new people, but I don't lead anyone on: If you're cheating, I'm not gonna do you, and that's that. But the reason I'm not interested isn't important. The point is, sometimes, I'm not interested in fucking a guy or flirting with him, but I'd be content to chat with him.
A good 80% of the time, though, after I say that I'm not interested in hooking up and that, in fact, I'm not even interested in flirting, they say they're happy to talk. Then, predictably, they start to flirt. Then they complain when I don't flirt back.
"But you're so hot!"
Somehow, apparently, these guys think that just because they find me attractive, I'm somehow obligated to flirt with them. Or maybe they think that if they tell me I'm hot, I'll find myself unable to resist flirting back?
In fact, what I find myself unable to resist is thinking they're assholes.
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"But you're so hot!"
"That's nice. I'm still not fucking you."
*eyeroll* So many stupid people...
Posted by: GreyDuck | October 6, 2006 11:13 AM
You know the difference between a slut and a bitch, right? A slut will fuck anyone, while a bitch will fuck anyone but YOU.
I need a button containing that sentiment, I think.
Posted by: ClueChick | October 6, 2006 11:44 AM
I like tubes. And sometimes catfish. And and and beans. But not with catfish. Catfish do not like beans.
One time, I put a turbo on a duck. It went "quack quack QUACKKKKKKKK." And then kapoweey zowie.
One time when I was riding in the back of a truck with my sister and we were going under some trees with large branches. I also said "Duck" and she said "Where?"
She's dead now.
It wasn't the same duck with the turbo. It was trees.
Posted by: Mike | October 17, 2006 6:40 AM
"Somehow, apparently, these guys think that just because they find me attractive, I'm somehow obligated to flirt with them. Or maybe they think that if they tell me I'm hot, I'll find myself unable to resist flirting back?"
They think that because you're still talking to them, the door is still open a crack. If you meet a guy in a sex-oriented online forum, and you're talking to them, they think they have a chance. If you're truly not interested, break off the conversation there. It just confuses guys if you don't.
Posted by: Rob | October 20, 2006 2:30 AM