Sex talk is fun! (part 2)
I think part of the reason it seemed relevant to share these chat logs is that I credit my friends witha lot of great knowledge, and, further, support. Once upon a time, I was a relatively uptight, corn-fed kind of girl who was accepting (but also a tad scornful) of people who had casual sex. "Oh, sure," I used to think, "that's fine for them, but I'll never do anything like that!" My transition from sweet, innocent girl-next-door to internet sex blogging slut-next-door would have been a hell of a lot harder if my friends weren't so damn awesome.
Not to mention that a) I often learn something new from my friends and b) these conversations are hot!
jen: or are we talking abouut sex?
cluechick: mmmm, sex
cluechick: we WERE talking about sex earlier
jen: sure, talk about sex while I'm in class ;)
cluechick: we can talk about it now, too! we were discussing favorite positions
jen: I'm lame about that, though. I *heart* being on the bottom.
cluechick: that's not lame
cluechick: my favorite positions are missionary and on my stomach
cluechick: though I have some novelty favorites thanks to mr. vacation fling
babs: hear hear! (for missionary and stomach)
cluechick: and I think I'd like being on top more if I had something above my head to hold onto
jen: I like missionary. And I like variants, like legs to shoulders
cluechick: *grin*
babs: mm, yeah
cluechick: jen, have you met arthur?
jen: once or twice!
babs: heh
cluechick: okay, so I don't need to introduce you, then? :)
jen: although oddly, he's never offered to put my knees by my ears and see what happens.
cluechick: I bet he will now!
babs: i'm sure he will!
kitty: stomach legs open, or stomach legs closed? :)
jen: only closed seems to work for me.
cluechick: I like both, with extra thumbs up for closed
babs: yeah, closed
jen: If I want to come, me on top or him on his side, with me across him with my hips facing the ceiling.
* cluechick tries to picture the latter
kitty: those are both lovely :)
cluechick: I don't think I've done that
kitty: and the latter is great for toys and hands and such
jen: yeah, there is total unfettered clit access.
kitty: mmmmhmm :)
cluechick: I may need someone to demonstrate this. I just can't picture it :)
kitty: ok!
jen: me, me!
jen: so the guy lies on his side, like he was going to spoon you.
jen: in fact, if you start spooning, and then you rotate onto your back, you're pretty much there.
jen: your legs go over his
kitty: well, one leg sorta goes over his side
cluechick: okay, I can picture it, now, but I still want a demonstration
babs: he stays on his side?
kitty: yep
babs: doesn't his top leg get in the way?
kitty: no, it's under your other leg
kitty: his legs are together
jen: no, both your legs go over him.
babs: oh, so your body is perpendicular to his?
jen: depending on geometry, sometimes you need to move so you're closer to perpendicular
kitty: babs, yeah, pretty much
babs: kind of on top facing feet, but then fallen over
kitty: depends how flexible i'm feeling :)
kitty: babs, yeah
kitty: or on top facing sideways and fallen over, really
arthur: okay that warrants trying
arthur: though I may need a diagram :)
jen: come over here.
arthur: woot!
kitty: *grins*
cluechick: *laugh*
cluechick: arthur, you've met jen? ;)
jen: your wife was just alleging you'd offer to put my knees up by my ears and see what happened!
arthur: she wasn't alleging she was avering
cluechick: *laugh*
arthur: and speaking of backscroll, reverse cow-girl is also quite nice
kitty: yeah, i've never been very into it
cluechick: that's woman on top facing feet?
arthur: yeah
jen: that was the first way I ever got myself off during piv.
cluechick: I've never tried it
arthur: especially if the woman leans forward just a smidge, rubs everything just right
cluechick: I did, however, like it when he sat cross legged on the floor and then I sat on him, facing him
cluechick: I could have done that for a looong time. did, in fact.
arthur: mmmmm that is nice
arthur: or sitting on the edge of the bed so you can use your legs more
babs: yeah, i like that. it's hot, but doesn't go as deep
babs: so missionary still wins :-)
cluechick: *grin*
jen: knees to shoulders.
jen: *nod*
babs: *sigh* yeah
cluechick: in part, my preference between missionary and on my stomach depends on my mood: sometimes, it's essential to see his face
jen: yeah, definitely.
jen: I used to be categorically opposed to positions where I couldn't see my partner
babs: really?
jen: it used to freak me out.
babs: Seeing is nice, but not at all necessary for me
cluechick: I do keep talking about getting a mirror, so we can do other positions and still see each other
jen: I slept with an artist once
jen: and he spent the whole time with his chin tucked to his chest, watchign himself fuck me.
babs: *laugh*
babs: "hello! over here!"
jen: it was actually kinda hot.
cluechick: *laugh*
cluechick: I can really enjoy a guy watching the action, but not if that's ALL he looks at
cluechick: unless I'm sucking his cock. he can watch that as long as he wants :)
cluechick: fuck, I'm horny
jen: meeeeee toooooooooo
babs: watching action and looking at you at the same time!
babs: that explains why sucking cock is the best thing ever *nods*
cluechick: totally
cluechick: well, that and fucking

Comments
Great stuff.
Posted by: G | November 18, 2006 3:07 PM
Off topic, but I just wanted to let you know that my #1 FB and I have planned a "Thanksgiving marathon" Friday night into Saturday morning/afternoon.
I hope you have just as much fun over the holiday and Happy Thanksgiving!
Posted by: G | November 23, 2006 12:01 PM