Dan Savage auctions a guest spot; ClueChick feels validated
First things first: Dan Savage is auctioning a guest expert slot for his column, Savage Love in January. If you want to buy this for me, the link is here. Alternately, the astute and hot reader who pointed this out to me suggests taking up a collection.
In other news, I need to gloat. I have a wonderful friend who has been engaging in casual sex, infrequently but regularly, for many years. She did it as a single person, and more recently, she's done it with her husband (how hot is that)? But she hasn't talked about it much during that time, because, you know, casual sex is so questionable! And it's true, you never know when you're going to be talking about the hot guy you picked up on the net for a quick lay and someone is going to get all up in arms about how disgusting and immoral you are. I'll admit, even I, one of the most chill people I know with regards to this topic, worry about how some people will respond to the whole deal.
But, of course, one of my big hopes for this blog is to unpack and then get rid of the shame that's associated with casual sex. Sex is a great and fun thing to do, and if people want to be doing it, then more fucking power to them!
So you can imagine how delighted I was to hear that my friend and her husband recently picked up an incredibly hot guy for a night of incredibly hot sex, and to hear that, inspired by my example, she's talking about the experience with people, where she says she wouldn't have in the past.
Little things like this make me feel like, hey, I've done something, here! That rocks.
