A nice guy in nice guy clothing
This is how a "Thanks, but no, thanks," conversation should go:
[I had just explained to him how some of the things he said in an earlier conversation had made me disinclined to meet up with him.]
NG: then let's skip to the next medium, and let me try to convice you over the phone in order to avoid any misinterpretations
ClueChick: no, thanks, though
ClueChick: I'm happy to keep chatting here from time to time, but not really motivated to try to take it anywhere
NG: ok, well i don't want to beg you or anything, just seemed like someone i'd have a good time with, and you turned me on so i thought we could have some fun .... i don't want to try to convince you, i would much rather have you actually want me instead .... but if you decide to change your mind, that would be cool
ClueChick: ok, thanks :)
NG: ok, otherwise, i'll chat with you here and there .... sorry for turning you off like that
Very, very cool. I may even change my mind about him.
