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Jerky responses to personal ads abound

I often wonder why guys even bother to respond to my personal ads. I assume that they send the same email to every ad they think is even possibly real, but these responses are so ridiculous, lame, or offensive that the guy is assuring a non-response right out of the box. And I'm not just talking about the guys who say, "If your real write me back!" At least those are hopeful but clueless. I'm thinking about responses like this one:

Drop the bull-shit bitch.... If you want to get fucked so hard that you wont walk straight for a week, and your shit will be falling out of your asshole for another week... Send me your picture and phone-number right-now...

No guy thinks that's an appealing image, right? So he's obviously writing the email to get his aggressive, jerky rocks off. What a waste.

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A wanna-be Dom might thing it would be appealing to a hopeful Sub. He'd be wrong, but he might genuinely think that...

Two things inspire me to answer a womans on-line post. One is that I'm interested in her, usually intellectually. The other is that the post is so offensive to me that it stirs a response. In the first case, I try something cocky and funny, something different than other guys might write. In the second case, I am sarcartic but polite. A guy can vent on-line, but he doesn't have to blast some poor female poster. I vent using my own posts. When I do, I don't want or expect a reply but if it has some humor in it, I usually get replies. On time I wrote about being invited to a party and being so excited that I might meet some babs. When I got there there were 15 single men, a dyke couple and a boy. A lot of women related to that and wrote to me.

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