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A new game: the balancing act

As you all have, perhaps, noticed, my posting has slacked off significantly over the summer. Summer is like that, of course, with lots of picnics and weekend outings and adventures of all sorts, and though I've been having the occasional hookup, most of my summer has been consumed by more substantial activities and events than casual sex.

This is something of a mixed bag for me. I really like casual sex, and I like having it be part of my life. And though I think I'm moving -- slowly -- in the direction of thinking I want to have some more serious relationship in my life. I was talking to a friend about this and she kindly pointed out the obvious: I don't have to choose between the two. But it still does mean shifting my efforts, which have, in the last couple of years, pretty much focused on the casual side of things, to include a bit more variety.

So, that may mean that on those (embarrassingly infrequent, I know) occasions when I manage to remind myself to post here, I may be shifting the focus around a bit. I know this won't bore most of you, but some of you, perhaps? So, call this fair warning.

Comments

Any ClueChick is good ClueChick. You could write sandwich making instructions and I'd read it.

Perhaps you could invite an appropriate co-blogger to post here on a more regular basis, rather than just filling in when you're on vacation?

I believe that you will stick to being true to yourself and your desires and your needs. That may include casual sex or it may not.

You may meet the man or woman of your kinky dreams through your meeting people and the focus will change.

"How to introduce a third player to your primary play partner?"

I come here to keep up on you and how things are going in your life. Keep on enjoying it!

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