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- Where oh where has CC been?
- more "do nots" from Sapiophile
- Gay is not kinky
- A blast from the past
- What not to do (X of Y)
- No, really, there's more to sex than cock
- What's great about casual sex?
- Don't be desperate!
- My top five list:
- I have to wonder if this ever works
- Midwest Teen Sex Show
- Is it me?
- Hey, I've had that here before!
- Some of the many ways to make me suspicious of your approach
- Hi, my name's [name]. Want to have dinner?
- A new game: the balancing act
- Worst thing to say in a response to a casual sex personal ad, ever
- Can women separate love and sex? (Yes.)
- Keeping my eyes open when looking for someone new
- Getting back on the horse
- The 20 Year Old Virgin
- Ah, irony. It bites you in the ass sometimes
- Wait, how's that work, again? Nonmonogamy as an option
- Just because I slept with him doesn't mean I'll sleep with you
- Porn for Women: Don't steal this book
- Fantasies promise much
- I need to expand my vocabulary
- Jerky responses to personal ads abound
- Who is this ClueChick character, anyway?
- Kissing and asking
- Misc misc: swingers and hips
- Kiss me, baby!
- Advice 101: Only ask for advice if you really want it
- Make some noise
- It's not easy being easy
- Taking a vacation
- Personals photos: a tiny detail
- Best typo, ever
- A quick and easy way to sort out most of the fake ads
- Condoms: safer sex or safer psyche?
- A nice guy in nice guy clothing
- Awesome ad
- Assholes in nice guy clothing
- When a woman gives you her panties, the date is going well
- I'm a fucking yuppie
- Welcome, 2007!
- Holiday break!
- The thanks but no thanks response. What's the point?
- Unusual encounters: photography!
- It never hurts to make a little extra effort
- Meaning no when you say no
- No means no, and you should act like it does, even if it doesn't
- Taking the plunge: Savage Love
- Dick shots: lead with your strenghth
- Things a woman probably isn't going to do the first time you meet her
- Why it pays to read and write ads carefully
- Dan Savage auctions a guest spot; ClueChick feels validated
- Set yourself apart: have standards
- Tonight, I'm wearing crankypants: when not to flirt
- An exemplar of a good CL email response
- Getting off on being GGG and enjoying your quirks along the way
- Confluence of catcalls
- Sex, love, and (non)monogamy
- Playing with nonmonogamy
- Happy post-Thanksgiving post!
- Sex talk is fun! (part 2)
- Sex talk is fun!
- Are you old, hot and horny? Don't email me, please.
- Fucking is fucking awesome
- Flirting with waitresses
- Oral sex for voting!
- German Boygroups, unite!
- Beauty, social mores, and a big nod to Erin McKean
- What do I reveal when fucking?
- How do I handle my partner's problems? With care.
- Conversational cues: Don't be a doofus. It turns off the chicks.
- Typos, how they plague the internet sex machines
- Speaking of fantasies: call-boy services!
- Common ways of saying, "I'm shallow"
- A rare Friday night post: while my nails dry
- Pointlessness in CL responses
- Moments of self doubt strike us all
- I'm confused: are you looking for a fuck or for a wife?
- On the internet, no one knows if you're a dog... but everyone knows if you're an asshole
- Stupid human tricks: first response no-nos
- The incoherent shouting is hard to resist...
- Poetry: rarely the best way to get casual sex
- Haven't I seen this email address before?
- A note on photos in personal ads
- Long weekends rock
- Listen, bub!
- The vacation waiter fling
- How to pick up a cluechick
- Pondering pick-ups: what are the details that make a difference?
- Today, I wear black
- Who do you make passes at?
- Reasons the airport isn't a good place for a hookup
- Deal breakers in casual vs. committed relationships
- Worst case scenarios: the fake ad that then posts your information for the world to see
- Vacation hookup teaser
- Vacation!
- Another yawner
- Making a list and checking it twice, casual sex style
- Don't invest too much in potential hookups
- Deal breakers: call me names
- Why is sex so important?
- Logistics of out-of-town hookups
- ClueChick for a day?
- Using casual sex to overcome sexual hangups
- Uncanny alignment of personal ads
- What to wear!
- The joys of the friends with benefits arrangement
- The secret network of women who fuck around
- Lameness abounds on Craig's List and other personals sites
- An unintentionally charming ad
- Where do those kinks come from?
- Hot marmalade chipmunk sex, anyone?
- Mixing drugs and casual encounters: is that really wise?
- Try something new every now and again
- Switching things up a bit in clueland
- You're not fucking your therapist, no matter what issues you're working through
- Deal-breakers: he doesn't listen to what I say
- Sorry, guys, "hi" doesn't get me hot
- More on anal sex: readers weigh in
- The joys and pains of butt sex
- The out-of-town hookup
- Methinks the lady doth protest... not at all.
- Honesty is the laziest policy
- The long-winded blowhards: not sexy
- Cluechick on Disney?
- Avoid even a whiff of desperation if you want to get laid
- A deal breaker: safer sex
- Trying for the unlikely match: specialized tastes in sex
- Okay, so I'm a little grouchy.
- Webcams: hot or not?
- When it rains...
- Do you want to date a girl or a woman?
- What's Cluechick up to these days?
- The thrill of the first date
- Another of those all-too-rare great casual sex ads by men: Boston
- Sex as secret barter: sleaze
- A short vacation from the casual sex scene... very shrot
- Moaning in your email is rarely sexy
- The ClueChick seal of approval: first date
- Chill out and grow some balls
- How to carry on a conversation: not
- What does this even mean?
- How ClueChick discovered CE
- The big O or a big dud?
- Why bother filling out a profile on a dating site?
- Meeting a stranger who turns out to be someone you know
- Responding to personal ads: don't lead with your most extreme trait
- Cream pies: is this code for something?
- To reject or to ignore: the dating woman's email dilemma
- Simply responding to my ad implies you're interested. Your email should contain more information.
- Early promise in a romantic connection is no guarantee that fucking will ensue
- On being emotionally available in relationships, casual and otherwise
- Casual sex, gender, relational styles and expectations
- Deal breakers in early flirtations with guys I meet online
- The ClueChick Seal of Approval in first date meeting conversation
- Psychological tricks and their missteps: passive aggression
- How not to accept the end of a casual fling
- Your picture speaks a thousand words, not all of them good
- A gentle tip for the virgins out there
- What's the best casual sex: fuckbuddies, one night stands, or something else?
- Make me holla
- Buying sex on Craig's List
- No, still no pictures here, sorry.
- Feedback and relationship processing in casual encounters
- Styles of casual sex
- Is casual sex counter to love?
- picking up hot fat chicks
- Post-Mother's Day appreciation
- MILFs for Mother's Day
- Cluechick takes a vacation
- The key to casual sex
- Insertibles Guy: one that got away
- Everything I do for fun is kinky. How do I talk about that on the first date?
- Make conversation count when picking up chicks
- Please, for the love of all that's good, impress me when you respond to my personal ad
- How many people are out there enjoying casual sex, anyway?
- Anal sex: encoded for the dense-of-mind
- Want to watch my tits bounce? Be a sweet talker.
- Casual sex and insecurity
- Cluechick draws a blank. What are you dying to know?
- Sort out the spam from the real women in casual sex ads
- Casual sex: pros and cons of last-minute planning
- Why I forgot to post yesterday: I blame my fabulous glass dildo
- The weirdest thing
- Safer sex and other dull stuff
- I like this thing, and it's kind of embarrassing, and is there anyone else out there who likes it, too?
- So, how do you avoid sex/love confusion?
- Cuddle up while you can, before summer makes it too sweaty for touching!
- I love a good compliment
- How do I say no? Let me count the ways
- Sex, love, casual sex, and what's better, anyway?
- What happens to casual sex in the context of a relationship
- Casual sex and romance do not mix
- Seduce me with your words
- Don't offer to buy me, buy sex from me, or buy my body (unless we've prenegotiated something fun)
- Luck of the draw: timing
- Pickups by proxy
- Thinking outside the hookups box
- The challenge of the introductory email for online hookups
- This response seriously piqued my interest
- Yet more bad email
- Boring response #5826
- The joys of modern sexual technology: vibrators
- Let's talk about safer sex and when it fails
- Monday morning headline roundup
- Let's talk about body language
- How nice are "Nice Guys", anyway?
- What do you disclose about your relationship network, and when?
- Why haven't you dated a black guy?
- You stood someone up, but you want another chance. Now what?
- So, you got stood up. Now what?
- So, what did happen Friday night?
- Good old Friday night and a bit of traditional scoping-out
- Black, white, casual sex, racial fetishes and racism
- What about the boy looking for a threesome? (MMW, that is)
- ClueChick and Sapiophile disagree about paying for it, and the charter of the CC blog
- If you've got to pay for sex, go somewhere other than casual encounters
- For couples looking for hookups with men
- Why bother with shame in dating?
- Does casual sex have a shelf life?
- Perfection: the sneaky trap that leads to not getting any
- Happy Blog Against Sexism Day
- No, really, I said anonymous!
- Today's most amusing come-on
- ClueChick's (minor) identity crisis
- More on sluttiness
- What does it mean to be slutty?
- Unexpected flowers from a fan
- Think about what you want in a fuckbuddy or partner
- Convincing a woman to break her own rules
- Anonymous Sex: website, stories, advice and insights
- Another common characteristic that men want me to ignore
- Sometimes, my first impressions of men and their potential are wrong
- I can't make this stuff up: tonight's CE response
- One of my favorite things about sleeping around
- Wherein ClueChick needs to take her own advice
- Older men, younger women, and casual encounters
- Why don't you tell me what you'd like me to talk about?
- On levels of attraction and the value of my advice
- Drinking, drugs, and casual sex
- Casual sex, safer sex, and how to do both
- Why you won't see my photograph on this site
- What to disclose: Who knows what about whom in your sexual constellation?
- If a picture is worth a thousand words, consider which words I might choose
- The drunken photo of you and some chick: do you really think it's sexy?
- The first time
- Confirming my expectations
- Don't put up with bullshit, people
- What is kinky?
- Way to win me over, sport
- May the valentines be with you, as much as you desire
- Another brilliant New Yorker
- Married men and the online scene
- Ending a casual relationship
- What's missing from casual encounters you start online
- Okay, so I'm a snob. Deal with it.
- Too tall, too short, or happy medium? Height and the online scene
- How do you prove anything online?
- What makes a good photo for online pickups?
- Dan Savage, the best advice columnist, ever
- Pay attention, damnit!
- Chauvinism, chivalry, sexism, and online dating. Four great tastes...?
- I want a guy with a six pack
- Pretty is as pretty does
- When opportunity knocks...
- How picky is too picky in the online scene?
- If you lie down with dogs...
- Try asking a few offbeat questions
- Pre-meeting ponderings: the good girl/bad girl problem
- Standing out: a double-edged blade
- Categorizing classic types on Craig's List and personals sites
- Just say no, thank you
- How to tell she's not interested
- Special Interests: BDSM
- Paying for it
- On the Merits of Proofreading
- Just Say No to Stupid Handles
- Sincerity: it matters
- Looks, shallowness and online dating
- How to say no, thanks
- Flattery: an excellent approach
- Worst experiences: In Need of Therapy
- Dear, sweet IM boy
- Guest blogger: sapiophile
- Do not pass "go"; do not collect $200
- Best experiences: The View
- Some CE ads appear to be miscategorized
- What do your friends think about your casual encounters?
- Setting up a first meeting
- How to flirt with a cluechick
- Cluechick's dirty little secret
- Finding women for nonstandard hookups on CL
- Window of time to reply?
- ClueChick will stay more or less the same
- What do women want in NSA sex?
- Should ClueChick be more risque?
- Saying what you mean in your ad or profile: hot
- How do not-hot guys get any action?
- Dear Not-Hot Guy:
- Seriously, guys, stop lying
- Who needs what?
- So you're meeting for casual sex... what about STDs?
- Be careful how you say what you want to say
- Where to meet the first time after chatting online?
- When I said no, what I meant was... no!
- How many responses does a woman get to her CL post?
- Headline roundup: Tuesday
- Why not ask why?
- Nice guys vs. bad boys: who gets laid?
- Taking things from erotic email to in-person hookups
- How not to win me over: An IM conversation
- Book review: Play or Be Played
- Do you have a hook? Use it when responding to personal ads!
- The miracles of modern technology
- How does it feel to want?
- The importance of conversational skills
- Sound too good to be true?
- Asking for credentials when responding to a woman's ad
- I wanted to feature a good ad, but I found this, instead.
- How guys make the online dating scene hard for themselves
- Probably not a new idea, but I found it on Craig's List for the first time
- When should I cut my losses?
- What do you call your genitals?
- What's the point?
- Saying what you mean in your ad or profile: sexy
- I love it when I find an entertaining ad
- Saying what you mean in your ad or profile: fat
- Some eye-catching Craig's List casual encounters headlines
- Make your headline relevant to your personal ad
- Saying what you mean in your ad or profile: fit
- Missing the point: an IM conversation
- Saying what you mean in your ad or profile: fun and cool
- I'm not a Christian, but every year, I hope xmas will make us better, anyway
- If you must respond to every woman who has posted an ad...
- Using your noggin to identify fake ads on Craig's List
- What about other dating sites: OkCupid
- Poor, poor Las Vegas and your casual encounters
- More on that pregnancy kink on casual encounters
- I think you meant this differently than it came out
- I want a baby, baby!
- Fancy features: just because you can doesn't mean you should
- Come up with creative questions
- I look for articles
- Why it pays to be selective in your personal ad desires
- When you include a photo with your email, ad or profile...
- Dating horrors
- A couple of w4m ads
- How to approach a woman (online or elsewhere)
- All is not lost: going from online to in-person in 10 easy steps
- Worst case scenarios: Oedipus
- Having an IM conversation with a prospective date
- How to respond to a woman on casual encounters
- Promise and reality in responding to personal ads and profiles
- To be attractive, start internally and work your way out
- The power of persistence when chatting up a woman online (and the danger of desperation)
- What can ClueChick do for you?
- More on why not to post the same thing every day, and a private note
- What about other dating sites? Yahoo Personals
- Sunday night's catch
- Show off when you respond to a personal ad!
- Don't use all caps in your Craig's List ad
- Women like sex. Believe it!
- A couple of ClueChick's pet peeves
- What day should I post my personal ad on casual encounters?
- How to respond to a Craig's List personal ad
- Broaden your approach when posting a personal ad
- This one got my hopes up
- The importance of follow-through when meeting new people online
- Tuesday night's clue
- Technically, he's not carrying an ax on the first date
- Blame the patriarchy
- Focus your email
- Book review: The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Dating & Sex
- Yet another way to make me roll my eyes
- What type of woman (or man) are you looking for?
- Now, THIS guy, I want to fuck
- What I'm going to do with your emails, hot pix, and personal information:
- Dear Cluechick: Cooking classes won't help!
- Fuck me... please
- What dating sites can I trust?
- I'm not confident. What do I do?
- Livejournal feed
- What if I'm ugly?
- Sending photos and pic collectors
- Should I send a photo when responding to ads?
- What's with the cock shots?
- A Thanksgiving quickie
- Why doesn't anyone respond to my emails?
- Telling the truth
- How to get my attention
- What not to do
- A good response
- Poor guy
- A classic generic response
- Some classic bad responses
- Play the game
- Are there any real women on Craig's List?
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